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Last Updated: March 5, 2024

Couples Interviews

Real couples share their approach to relationship wellness.

Jeremy & Cori

Last Updated: January 11, 2024

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Case & Bryan

Case and Bryan talk through the importance of not just communicating your feelings, but really listening to your partner.

Mary & Scott

Compassion, humor, and intelligence are just a few of Scott's favorite things about Mary.

Lian & Colin

Even after 10 years, Lian and Colin can't stop making each other laugh. Learn about their Rose Bud Thorn and their tips for conflict resolution.

Micah & Janjira

Long distance has been the perfect start to countless beautiful relationships and Micah and Janjira are no exception.

Omar & David

It only took an hour for Omar to realize David was the one for him. Now they've been together for 7 years and they're sharing…

Fran & Melanie

Learn more about Fran and Mel and how they are prioritizing each other's happiness and speaking their feelings in conflict.

Becca & Kev

Becca and Kev are all about honesty and communication, but still find ways to make each other laugh.

Audrey & Felipe

From first impressions to fifth date picnics, this couple's journey has been marked by profound insights and genuine connection.

Rory and Anna

Laughter and space are the key for Rory and Anna. They found couples therapy through Ours and believe in going proactively.

Tsega & Bonnie

Tsega and Bonnie have been together for 24 years, and attribute their commitment to bettering their communication to couples therapy.

Ask a Therapist

Expert answers from a licensed couples therapist.

How to have intentional relationships

Last Updated: March 22, 2024

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Effects of Pornography In Relationships

Every Friday, we open our Instagram to the Ours community and let couples submit questions to our team of couples therapists. We pick the most…

What should we talk about on a roadtrip?

Fifteen questions, designed by a couples therapist, for long road trips with your partner.

How can I tell the difference between immaturity and maturity?

Two key, therapist-recommended questions to ask yourself after an argument.

How can I get the most out of premarital counseling?

Thoughts on what to do and not do when you're considering premarital counseling.

When are you ready for marriage?

Our Head Clinician, Benu, weighs in on the obvious and not so obvious things to consider.

How to even out the parental load

A couples therapist recommends 6 steps you can take to even out the parental load.

How often should we be intimate?

There's no right answer, but research and a framework from a couples therapist can help you approach this question.

We want to grow together but…

Spend 30 minutes going through these 5 therapist-approved questions.

Relationship Wellness

Deep dives, research, and guides.

I have no sex drive, and it’s ruining my relationship. What do I do?

Last Updated: April 15, 2024

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20 at-home communication exercises for couples

Regularly implementing communication exercises for couples can build intimacy and trust. Learn how to effectively practice these exercises at home. Communication is vital to every…

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Is Couples Therapy Covered by Insurance? A Comprehensive Guide

There’s no doubt that your relationship will have a huge impact on your happiness and overall well-being. But how do you stay together when even…

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11 types of couples therapy and their benefits (+ exercises)

There’s no one-size-fits-all form of couples therapy, which is why there are a wide range of options to choose from to strengthen your relationship. Every…

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The Gottman Method for couples therapy

The Gottman Method is one of the most popular forms of couples therapy from the top researcher on what makes marriages last. Dr. John Gottman…

Does marriage counseling really work?

Not only is marriage counseling a great way to overcome challenges in a relationship, but it’s also a great way to proactively strengthen it. Together,…

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Five couples therapy worksheets to strengthen your relationship

A strong and healthy relationship starts with effective communication. That’s why we’ve created five couples therapy worksheets — your cheat sheets to foster a more…

14 Tips for How to Bring Back Intimacy in a Marriage

If your relationship is struggling with intimacy, you’re not alone. One study surveyed almost 18,000 couples in the United States and found that 15.6 percent…

In love vs. love: What’s the difference?

When it comes to romantic relationships, there’s a difference between loving someone and being in love — but how do you distinguish between the two?…

Replace your weekly date with a Rose Bud Thorn

A ritual exercise for you and your partner to regularly check in on how you’re doing as a couple.

Going to couples therapy made me start a business

Hear from one of the Ours founders about the personal story and inspiration behind the Ours platform.

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How to increase physical intimacy in a relationship: 11 ideas

Physical intimacy is important in many relationships, but it ebbs and flows. Whether you’re looking to bring physical intimacy back or increase it in your relationship, there are simple ways…

Advice for couples from a certified professional wedding officiant

As a Certified Professional Wedding Officiant, I've had the privilege of witnessing the union of countless couples, each with their own unique story and vision for their special day. Over…

Merging Lives Legally and Emotionally: A Guide to Name Changes and More

Marriage signifies a deep commitment between two partners, often involving a blend of legal and emotional intertwining of lives, especially when deciding to change your name. We partnered with Courtly…

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10 best marriage counseling therapists in Denver, CO

Marriage counseling is a great way to learn how to have difficult conversations while gaining additional tools to bring you closer together with your partner. Through relationship counseling in Denver,…

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Relationship statistics for finding a partner in 2024

Where are couples most likely to meet? How did the pandemic affect relationships? And how many couples actually go to counseling? Relationships are unique, and there’s a lot to learn…

Top 10 best couples therapists in the Bay Area [2024]

Some couples seek therapy to resolve conflict or bring back intimacy, and others use it as a tool to proactively strengthen their relationship. If you want to improve your relationship,…

Pre-marriage counseling: Benefits + what to expect

Pre-marriage counseling is a great way to create a strong foundation for your marriage long before the wedding happens. You’ll learn how to align your goals, resolve conflict, and avoid…

What Is Premarital Counseling?

In this piece we'll walk you through the ins and outs of premarital counseling, plus walk you through how we do things differently at Ours. What is premarital counseling? Premarital…

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