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Effects of Pornography In Relationships

Every Friday, we open our Instagram to the Ours community and let couples submit questions to our team of couples therapists. We pick the most interesting ones and write our thoughts here. This week’s question is: “I'm in a relationship and want to stop watching porn, how can I do that?” First and foremost, even…

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What should we talk about on a roadtrip?

Fifteen questions, designed by a couples therapist, for long road trips with your partner.

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How can I tell the difference between immaturity and maturity?

Two key, therapist-recommended questions to ask yourself after an argument.

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How can I get the most out of premarital counseling?

Thoughts on what to do and not do when you're considering premarital counseling.

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When are you ready for marriage?

Our Head Clinician, Benu, weighs in on the obvious and not so obvious things to consider.

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How to even out the parental load

A couples therapist recommends 6 steps you can take to even out the parental load.

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How often should we be intimate?

There's no right answer, but research and a framework from a couples therapist can help you approach this question.

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We want to grow together but…

Spend 30 minutes going through these 5 therapist-approved questions.