Meet OURS.

OURS is a modern, virtual experience that helps couples build a strong foundation for forever. We provide expert guidance and tools to talk about the big stuff like communication, finances, values, and more.

Depending on what you're looking for, there are 2 different ways for you to begin OURS:

Trial OURS
1 live, virtual session with an expert
1 self-guided session with our Loveware

Great for: finding out if OURS is right for you, surprising your partner with a new experience, or testing out what investing in your relationship feels like.

$50, 1 week (if you choose to continue, you'll pay an additional $450 to access 3 more self-guided sessions and 1 more live session)
Full experience
2 live, virtual sessions with an expert
4 self-guided sessions with our Loveware

Great for: couples who are ready to go all in on forever.

$400, 4 weeks (by purchasing the entire OURS experience up front, you'll save $100)

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How it works

Begin with a Welcome Survey:
You and your partner will fill out separate surveys about your relationship and goals. It will take around 20 minutes to complete. You can write as much or as little as you'd like, but your Guide would love to know as much about you as they can!

Schedule your welcome session:
We usually have sessions available Monday through Saturday, from 9 A.M ET until 9 P.M ET. You can typically schedule your welcome session within 5 days of signing up.

Meet your Guide:
You'll join a Zoom with them where your Guide will, well, guide you through a series of questions that help them to understand what type of roadmap you’ll need to take throughout the OURS experience. They’ll ask you questions about how you met, what your strengths are, and where you think you need extra support. At the end of the session, they’ll share with you what they believe your roadmap of sessions should be. They choose these specifically based on you and your partner’s needs. This session will last for 45 minutes.

Start your content sessions:
You’ll have access to one session at a time. These sessions might be on topics like finances, parenting, family, boundary setting, or dealing with differences, to name a few. We recommend doing a session a week. They tend to take about an hour.

Wrap-up with your Guide:
Once you've completed your content sessions, you’ll meet with your Guide so they can provide you with feedback, and offer you support as you prepare for the next steps in your relationship.

Your OURS sessions

Every couple is different and so is your experience with OURS. Based on our proprietary approach and the insight of your Guide, we'll design a series of sessions on Loveware that may include topics like:

Communication
Finances
Intimacy
Household Roles and Responsibilities
Parenting and Family Planning
Values and the Future
Speaking and Listening
Navigating Our Differences

Want even more detail? Click here for a detailed review from a journalist at the New York Times and here for a step-by-step breakdown by one of our founders.

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Top FAQs

So what exactly do we get?

How long will we be doing OURS for?

What if we’re not engaged?

Do you have any case studies or in-depth reviews of the experience?

Who are the Guides and what are their qualifications?

Is this therapy? Coaching? Counseling? What’s the difference?

Can I gift OURS or add to my registry?

How long are the sessions?

How does this actually work?

How far out from our wedding date do you recommend completing the program?

Can you share an overview of what we'll experience?

What's covered in the sessions?

Will I get to pick my Guide?

If OURS were a person, what would that person be like?

Do you take insurance?