Modern premarital counseling
OURS is a virtual and #1 ranked alternative to premarital counseling. Guided conversations to talk about the big stuff, created by relationship experts and research backed technology.
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99% of couples report feeling closer after OURS
OURS helped us cultivate more empathy,
a kind of relationship super-glue that breaks down resentment and antipathy — feelings that any therapist will tell you can, over time, erode a marriage.”
“Relationship health is a vital but neglected part of our lives,
nothing matters more for our well-being than nurturing our close relationships. I’m thrilled to see Ours making counseling affordable and available

How it works

1, 7, or 14 guided conversations; all virtual and personalized to your relationship
Step 1 - After answering a few questions, you and your partner will choose what works best for you: 1, 7, or 14 conversations.

Step 1 - After answering a few questions, you and your partner will choose what works best for you: 1, 7, or 14 conversations.

Step 2 - Receive your guided conversations on Loveware, our proprietary tech platform (see a demo of one here).

Step 2 - Receive your guided conversations on Loveware, our proprietary tech platform (see a demo of one here).

Step 3 - As often as you'd like, complete a guided conversation with your partner where you'll learn, grow, plan, and have fun.

Step 3 - As often as you'd like, complete a guided conversation with your partner where you'll learn, grow, plan, and have fun.

Step 4 - Most couples then choose to continue investing in their relationship, covering additional topics.

Step 4 - Most couples then choose to continue investing in their relationship, covering additional topics.

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OURS vs Traditional Premarital Counseling
OURS

Clear start and end

Virtual and at your own pace

Innovative technology

Future and goal oriented

More affordable (Less than $20 per conversation)

Traditional

Ongoing

Weekly and in-person

PDFs and worksheets

Problem oriented

Highly variable (~$60-350 per session)

“The best part was that it was actually fun. Any couple regardless of what stage in their relationship could and would benefit from this. It’s all online, it’s accessible and we loved it and will remember it forever. I recommend it to everyone and couldn't be happier about our experience.”

- Rory and Anna

"Ok so we just did our first conversation and LOVED it. We really leaned into the hour - ordered takeout, lit some candles, and got cozy. The conversation was so impactful in helping us learn about ourselves and thus understand each other better."

- Becca and Leah

"This gave us the language to talk about the things we needed to talk about. I think all couples would benefit from OURS. Even my grandparents and parents who've been together for decades would get a better understanding of each other and space for their relationship."

- Jocelyn and Jonpaul

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The most important relationship topics to cover before you get married

Based on our proprietary approach and the insight of our experts, we've design a series of guided conversations on Loveware that may include topics like:
  • Communication
  • Finances
  • Intimacy
  • Household Roles and Responsibilities
  • Parenting and Family Planning
  • Values and the Future
  • Speaking and Listening
  • Navigating Our Differences
  • Spirituality
  • Stress and Co-Regulation
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What are our choices?

Relationships are one of the best predictors of happiness and well-being. OURS is a modern alternative - created by experts - for couples who want to fall in love with their partner over and over again, at every stage of their life together.

1
conversation, try it out risk-free
7
conversations, cover the basics
14
conversations, dive into all areas
100
new ways to connect with your partner
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