Pre wedding counseling
Virtual pre wedding counseling to talk about the big stuff like communication, finances, values, and more. 4 weeks with an expert, 6 sessions, get started for just $50.
Scientifically proven to not be scary.
If you're going to spend $$ on a photographer, you might as well set the foundation in your relationship to make sure you like the person in the pics 10yrs from now.
-Lindsey and Drew
Can we keep doing this forever? We loved the activities, the structure, and the conversations that kept flowing even after a session ended.
-Sophie and Patrick
4 weeks. 3 steps.
2 brains. 1 future.
~4% the cost of a wedding photographer
money-back guarantee if you're not happy
Built for all couples
Sometimes when two people love each other, they keep their clothes on and go to pre wedding counseling.
“The best part was that it was actually fun. Any couple regardless of what stage in their relationship could and would benefit from this. It’s all online, it’s accessible and we loved it and will remember it forever. I recommend it to everyone and couldn't be happier about our experience.”
- Rory and Anna
“Nora created such a safe, playful, and comfortable space for us to explore some otherwise sensitive conversations. After 4 years together, I was surprised how each session we were having a conversation that we hadn't approached before. You've created a true fan!”
- Dennis and Gigi
"We thoroughly enjoyed our time and journey led by our lovely Guide! Every session was personalized for us and she provided a safe space for us to be vulnerable and intimate so that we could be enlightened by our personal values and our shared vision for our future. OURS was incredible and has continued to contribute to our relationship months after!"
- Sherida and Kristen
"Ok so we just did our first session and LOVED it. We really leaned into the hour - ordered takeout, lit some candles, and got cozy. The session was so impactful in helping us learn about ourselves and thus understand each other better."
- Becca and Leah
"This gave us the language to talk about the things we needed to talk about. I think all couples would benefit from OURS. Even my grandparents and parents who've been together for decades would get a better understanding of each other and space for their relationship."
- Jocelyn and Jonpaul
"There's so many relationship resources out there but with OURS I felt really secure knowing there were certified licensed professionals - shout out to Liz - who were providing very customized support that was also backed by so much research and experience. It really felt like we had a strong and supportive confidant."
- Tem and Lam
A personalized roadmap
- Communication
- Finances
- Intimacy
- Household Roles and Responsibilities
- Parenting and Family Planning
- Values and the Future
- Speaking and Listening
- Navigating Our Differences
A space just for you
- Interactive and adapts to your answers
- At your own pace
- Filled with surprises
An expert Guide
- Understanding the research
- Providing insight into your relationship
- Crafting fun and engaging challenges for you and your partner
- Answering all the questions you might have
Meet the Guides.
Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT
Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote
Nora Nova, M.Ed.
Lead Guide and premarital counselor: ask me about the languages I speak
Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW
Guide and relationship scientist; ask me about my obsession with dogs
Harmony Hampton, MSW
Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my military service
Janay Holland, PhD, MFT
Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my TikTok video of the week
Wande Ogunkoya, MSW
Guide and premarital counselor; ask me how long it took to finish today's Wordle
Haley Selarnick, LMFT
Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week!
Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT
Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts
OURS vs traditional pre wedding counseling
| OURS | Traditional Pre Wedding Counseling |
|---|---|
| Secular | Religious |
| Modern | Old |
| Personalized | Standardized |
| Delivered by experts | Delivered by community |
| Topic, skill, and research based | Focused on topics |
| Virtual and at your own pace | In-person |
| Welcoming of all couples | Engaged couples of faith |
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