Modern, proactive, virtual premarital counseling.

Premarital counseling for couples who want to talk about the little stuff before it becomes the big stuff. 4 weeks with a Guide, $400 and 100% virtual.

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Scientifically proven to not be scary.

Can we keep doing this forever? We loved the activities, the structure, and the conversations that kept flowing even after a session ended.

-Sophie and Patrick

4 weeks. 3 steps.
2 brains. 1 future.

Relationships are one of the best predictors of happiness and well-being. OURS is modern premarital counseling - guided by experts - for couples who want to fall in love with their partner over and over again, at every stage of their life together.
  • Step 1 - Apply
    Apply by answering a few fun questions to see if you’re a good fit.
  • Step 2 - Meet Your Guide
    Have an exploratory conversation with one of our Guides, a world class expert.
  • Step 3 - Start Your Roadmap
    Enjoy 6 personalized sessions, 2 with a Guide and 4 via our Loveware.
  • And then join the...
    90% of couples who say they'll remember this experience 50 years from now and the 100% who feel closer to their partner after OURS.
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OURS

Sometimes when two people love each other, they keep their clothes on and go to premarital counseling.

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Live, private sessions with an expert Guide.

You'll meet twice, for 45 minutes with your Guide, who has a Master's degree or higher in some form of Therapy, Mental Health, or Counseling.

Offline sessions designed just for you.

To get the most out of your experience, you’ll spend 4 sessions with Loveware, special tech designed to lead you through guided exercises and discussion prompts with magical surprises.

Life-changing insights, tips, and discussions.

Throughout the program, you'll cover topics like communication, finances, intimacy, values, roles, and more. Everything is based on gold-standard research and years of experience.

“The best part was that it was actually fun. Any couple regardless of what stage in their relationship could and would benefit from this. It’s all online, it’s accessible and we loved it and will remember it forever. I recommend it to everyone and couldn't be happier about our experience.”

- Rory and Anna

“Nora created such a safe, playful, and comfortable space for us to explore some otherwise sensitive conversations. After 4 years together, I was surprised how each session we were having a conversation that we hadn't approached before. You've created a true fan!”

- Dennis and Gigi

"We thoroughly enjoyed our time and journey led by our lovely guide Shade! Every session was personalized for us and Shade provided a safe space for us to be vulnerable and intimate so that we could be enlightened by our personal values and our shared vision for our future. OURS was incredible and has continued to contribute to our relationship months after!"

- Sherida and Kristen

"Ok so we just did our first session and LOVED it. We really leaned into the hour - ordered takeout, lit some candles, and got cozy. The session was so impactful in helping us learn about ourselves and thus understand each other better."

- Becca and Leah

"This gave us the language to talk about the things we needed to talk about. I think all couples would benefit from OURS. Even my grandparents and parents who've been together for decades would get a better understanding of each other and space for their relationship."

- Jocelyn and Jonpaul

"There's so many relationship resources out there but with OURS I felt really secure knowing there were certified licensed professionals - shout out to Liz - who were providing very customized support that was also backed by so much research and experience. It really felt like we had a strong and supportive confidant."

- Tem and Lam

Meet the team.

Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT

Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote

Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT

Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote

Nora Nova, M.Ed.

Lead Guide and premarital counselor: ask me about the languages I speak

Nora Nova, M.Ed.

Lead Guide and premarital counselor: ask me about the languages I speak

Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW

Guide and relationship scientist; ask me about my obsession with dogs

Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW

Guide and relationship scientist; ask me about my obsession with dogs

Harmony Hampton, MSW

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my military service

Harmony Hampton, MSW

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my military service

Janay Holland, MFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my TikTok video of the week

Janay Holland, MFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my TikTok video of the week

Haley Selarnick, LMFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week!

Haley Selarnick, LMFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week!

Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts

Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts

Liza Arnold

Operations; ask me about my work with social entrepreneurship at UVA

Liza Arnold

Operations; ask me about my work with social entrepreneurship at UVA

Hannah Grisack

Growth; ask me about the cognitive psychology research I did at Wake Forest

Hannah Grisack

Growth; ask me about the cognitive psychology research I did at Wake Forest

Jessica Holton

Co-founder and co-CEO; ask me about my NYT crossword puzzle adventures

Jessica Holton

Co-founder and co-CEO; ask me about my NYT crossword puzzle adventures

Adam Putterman

Co-founder and co-CEO; ask me about tennis, Libby, Luna, and clouds

Adam Putterman

Co-founder and co-CEO; ask me about tennis, Libby, Luna, and clouds

Tyler Zey

Head of Engineering; ask me about listening to classical music

Tyler Zey

Head of Engineering; ask me about listening to classical music

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