A gift they’ll remember for the rest of their lives.

OURS is a modern, virtual experience that helps couples build a strong foundation for forever. We provide expert guidance and tools to talk about the big stuff like communication, finances, values, and more.
100% of couples report feeling closer after OURS. Depending on what you're looking for, there are 2 different ways for you to gift OURS:
  • Mini experience

    1 live, virtual session with an expert
    1 self-guided session with our Loveware

    Great for: engagement, wedding, & anniversary gifts, or just to send a little extra love!

    $100, 1 week
  • Full experience

    2 live, virtual sessions with an expert
    4 self-guided sessions with our Loveware

    Great for: group engagement, wedding, & anniversary gifts, or a gift for an extra special loved one

    $400, 4 weeks

How it works

Personalized invitation

Your recipient will receive an invitation via email, with a personalized note from you (fun ideas include: what you love most about them, what you admire about their relationship, or what you’re most excited about in their future).

Get matched with a Guide

The couple can start the OURS experience whenever they’re ready. They’ll fill out welcome surveys, get matched with one of our expert Guides, and schedule their first live session.

Start the experience

They’ll embark on a journey to explore the big stuff together! They’ll meet with their Guide via Zoom, and use our special, relationship-building ‘Loveware’ tech to navigate self-guided exercises, discussion prompts, and so much more.

Why OURS is the best gift you can give

Unlike a toaster or sheet set, OURS is a unique experience that will stick with couples as they grow old together. Research has found that relationships are one of the best predictors of happiness and well-being, and couples who do premarital counseling experience a 30% happier marriage.

FAQs

OURS is virtual, modern premarital counseling for couples who want to proactively invest in their relationship. The program consists of live Zoom sessions with our expert Guides, as well as self-guided virtual sessions using our Loveware tech (includes video lessons, guided exercises, interactive discussion prompts, and more!). For more detail, check out our program overview.

OURS is typically best for couples that are:

  • Engaged *or* have been together for less than 5 years
  • Are confident about their commitment to each other
  • Are looking to be proactive about their relationship
  • Have a safe and healthy relationship

Our current customers include couples who are engaged, dating, and married. OURS is typically not the right fit for couples who are working through more serious challenges like infidelity or violence. If you’re not sure if a couple is the right fit, email us at hi@withours.com and we’ll provide more guidance.

We work with the best relationship experts we know and our Guides are no exception. They’ve all been especially handpicked for their compassion, enthusiasm, and trailblazing relationship approach. Each Guide has, at the very least, a Master's degree in some form of Therapy, Mental Health, or Counseling (e.g., a Master's of Marriage and Family Therapy, a Master's of Psychology, etc.).

You can check out Hannah Seligson's account of her OURS experience in the New York Times here.

The couple will receive an invitation via email, so there’s no need to worry about shipping.

OURS gifts do not expire, so the recipient can start the experience at their own pace, whenever they’re ready.

Yes. If the gift ends up not being the right fit, just email us at hi@withours.com and we’ll give you a refund.

Relationship counseling and premarital counseling are sometimes stigmatized, but at OURS we’re aiming to change that with a program that’s proactive and gives happy couples the space to talk about the little stuff before it becomes big stuff.

So… we don’t think so. But don’t take it from us, here’s a quote from one of our happy couples!

“We found the program way more surprising and enjoyable than I had imagined it would be. I think it makes a perfect gift as it’s not something that people would traditionally buy for themselves, but would certainly be something they cherish and ended up being really fun for us.” -Will

Email us at hi@withours.com.