Counseling for couples who don’t want therapy
The conversations you need to have, but don’t know how to. OUR guides help you talk about the “big stuff."
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99% of couples report feeling closer after OURS
“These four weeks also helped us cultivate more empathy,
a kind of relationship super-glue that breaks down resentment and antipathy — feelings that any therapist will tell you can, over time, erode a marriage.”
“Relationship health is a vital but neglected part of our lives
Nothing matters more for our well-being than nurturing our close relationships. I’m thrilled to see Ours making counseling affordable and available
How does it work?

Relationships are one of the best predictors of happiness and well-being. OURS is online couples counseling - guided by experts - for couples who want to fall in love with their partner over and over again, at every stage of their life together.

2
live, virtual sessions with an expert
4
self-guided sessions on Loveware
1
personalized roadmap of topics
10
hours of sessions, challenges, and more
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“The best part was that it was actually fun. Any couple regardless of what stage in their relationship could and would benefit from this. It’s all online, it’s accessible and we loved it and will remember it forever. I recommend it to everyone and couldn't be happier about our experience.”

- Rory and Anna

“Nora created such a safe, playful, and comfortable space for us to explore some otherwise sensitive conversations. After 4 years together, I was surprised how each session we were having a conversation that we hadn't approached before. You've created a true fan!”

- Dennis and Gigi

"We thoroughly enjoyed our time and journey led by our lovely Guide! Every session was personalized for us and she provided a safe space for us to be vulnerable and intimate so that we could be enlightened by our personal values and our shared vision for our future. OURS was incredible and has continued to contribute to our relationship months after!"

- Sherida and Kristen

"Ok so we just did our first session and LOVED it. We really leaned into the hour - ordered takeout, lit some candles, and got cozy. The session was so impactful in helping us learn about ourselves and thus understand each other better."

- Becca and Leah

"This gave us the language to talk about the things we needed to talk about. I think all couples would benefit from OURS. Even my grandparents and parents who've been together for decades would get a better understanding of each other and space for their relationship."

- Jocelyn and Jonpaul

"There's so many relationship resources out there but with OURS I felt really secure knowing there were certified licensed professionals - shout out to Liz - who were providing very customized support that was also backed by so much research and experience. It really felt like we had a strong and supportive confidant."

- Tem and Lam

A personalized roadmap, led by an expert

Every couple is different and so is your experience with OURS. Based on our proprietary approach and the insight of your Guide, we'll design a series of sessions on Loveware that may include topics like:
  • Communication
  • Finances
  • Intimacy
  • Household Roles and Responsibilities
  • Parenting and Family Planning
  • Values and the Future
  • Speaking and Listening
  • Navigating Our Differences

Meet the Guides

All Guides have a Master's degree or higher in some form of Therapy, Mental Health, or Counseling

Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT

Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote

Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT

Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote

Nora Nova, M.Ed.

Lead Guide and couples counselor; ask me about the languages I speak

Nora Nova, M.Ed.

Lead Guide and couples counselor; ask me about the languages I speak

Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts

Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts

Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about my obsession with dogs

Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about my obsession with dogs

Harmony Hampton, MSW

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about my military service

Harmony Hampton, MSW

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about my military service

Haley Selarnick, LMFT

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week

Haley Selarnick, LMFT

Guide and couples counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week

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