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Virtual premarital counseling to talk about the big stuff like communication, finances, values, and more. 4 weeks with an expert, 6 sessions, get started for just $50.

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If you're going to spend $$ on a photographer, you might as well set the foundation in your relationship to make sure you like the person in the pics 10yrs from now.

-Lindsey and Drew
Can we keep doing this forever? We loved the activities, the structure, and the conversations that kept flowing even after a session ended.

-Sophie and Patrick

4 weeks. 3 steps.
2 brains. 1 future.

Relationships are one of the best predictors of happiness and well-being. OURS is modern premarital counseling - guided by experts - for couples who want to fall in love with their partner over and over again, at every stage of their life together.
2 live, virtual sessions with an expert.
4 self-guided sessions with our Loveware.
A personalized roadmap of topics.
Fun surprises and meaningful moments.
Get started for $50.
~4% the cost of a wedding photographer
money-back guarantee if you're not happy
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Built for all couples

Sometimes when two people love each other, they keep their clothes on and go to premarital counseling.

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“The best part was that it was actually fun. Any couple regardless of what stage in their relationship could and would benefit from this. It’s all online, it’s accessible and we loved it and will remember it forever. I recommend it to everyone and couldn't be happier about our experience.”

- Rory and Anna

“Nora created such a safe, playful, and comfortable space for us to explore some otherwise sensitive conversations. After 4 years together, I was surprised how each session we were having a conversation that we hadn't approached before. You've created a true fan!”

- Dennis and Gigi

"We thoroughly enjoyed our time and journey led by our lovely Guide! Every session was personalized for us and she provided a safe space for us to be vulnerable and intimate so that we could be enlightened by our personal values and our shared vision for our future. OURS was incredible and has continued to contribute to our relationship months after!"

- Sherida and Kristen

"Ok so we just did our first session and LOVED it. We really leaned into the hour - ordered takeout, lit some candles, and got cozy. The session was so impactful in helping us learn about ourselves and thus understand each other better."

- Becca and Leah

"This gave us the language to talk about the things we needed to talk about. I think all couples would benefit from OURS. Even my grandparents and parents who've been together for decades would get a better understanding of each other and space for their relationship."

- Jocelyn and Jonpaul

"There's so many relationship resources out there but with OURS I felt really secure knowing there were certified licensed professionals - shout out to Liz - who were providing very customized support that was also backed by so much research and experience. It really felt like we had a strong and supportive confidant."

- Tem and Lam

A personalized roadmap

Every couple is different and so is your experience with OURS. Based on our proprietary approach and the insight of your Guide, we'll design a series of sessions on Loveware that may include topics like:
  • Communication
  • Finances
  • Intimacy
  • Household Roles and Responsibilities
  • Parenting and Family Planning
  • Values and the Future
  • Speaking and Listening
  • Navigating Our Differences

A space just for you

To get the most out of your experience, you’ll spend 4 sessions with Loveware, special tech designed to lead you through guided exercises and discussion prompts with magical surprises. Loveware is:
  • Interactive and adapts to your answers
  • At your own pace
  • Filled with surprises

An expert Guide

You'll meet twice over Zoom with your Guide, who has a Master's degree or higher in some form of Therapy, Mental Health, or Counseling. They're experts in:
  • Understanding the research
  • Providing insight into your relationship
  • Crafting fun and engaging challenges for you and your partner
  • Answering all the questions you might have

Meet the Guides.

Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT

Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote

Liz Earnshaw, LMFT, CGT

Co-founder, Head of Relationship Health; ask me about the book I wrote

Nora Nova, M.Ed.

Lead Guide and premarital counselor: ask me about the languages I speak

Nora Nova, M.Ed.

Lead Guide and premarital counselor: ask me about the languages I speak

Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW

Guide and relationship scientist; ask me about my obsession with dogs

Robin Dunn Bryant, MSW

Guide and relationship scientist; ask me about my obsession with dogs

Harmony Hampton, MSW

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my military service

Harmony Hampton, MSW

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my military service

Janay Holland, PhD, MFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my TikTok video of the week

Janay Holland, PhD, MFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my TikTok video of the week

Wande Ogunkoya, MSW

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me how long it took to finish today's Wordle

Wande Ogunkoya, MSW

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me how long it took to finish today's Wordle

Haley Selarnick, LMFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week!

Haley Selarnick, LMFT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about what recipe I'm making this week!

Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts

Stephanie Wray LMHC, ATR-BC, EXAT

Guide and premarital counselor; ask me about my passion for expressive arts

About us

OURS vs traditional premarital counseling

OURSTraditional Premarital Counseling
SecularReligious
ModernOld
PersonalizedStandardized
Delivered by expertsDelivered by community
Topic, skill, and research basedFocused on topics
Virtual and at your own paceIn-person
Welcoming of all couplesEngaged couples of faith

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